Managing work and family is something that every parent struggles with at some point in the relationship. It’s become increasingly common for both parents to be employed outside of the home.

Parenting is one of the most rewarding—and challenging—experiences a couple can go through. But what happens to the relationship itself as you navigate the ups and downs of raising children together?

One of the most common sources of tension in relationships is the division of household labor. Whether it’s about cleaning, meal prep, or taking care of the kids, couples often find themselves in conflict over who is doing what, when, and how much.